f.a.q.

Here is a list of the most frequently asked questions I receive. Once you have read these and consulted my Calendar, you’re ready to get in touch!

I filled out your form and have not heard back from you, or, why did you stop responding to my emails?

I have been having difficulties with my email provider and my messages are frequently sent to spam, sometimes in the middle of a correspondence. While I am attempting to address this issue, it is imperative that you check your spam folder frequently!

Do I have to pay a deposit?

Unless expressly requested, a deposit is not required to book an appointment; it is, however, required to lock in the appointment. If a deposit is not paid, I retain the right to cancel the appointment in order to take other bookings where a deposit is provided. The full policy can be found here.

Do you have a cancellation/late policy?

Yes, you can find it here.

Do you offer half-hour appointments?

I do not offer half-hour appointments.

What is your availability like?

I am a grad student and so my time is dedicated to my studies first and foremost. This means I am rarely available for same day appointments. Please check the calendar section of my website as it gives a good idea of my current availability.

Do you visit (insert city here)?

I rarely tour these days, owing to my studies and the high overhead costs. If you desire to see me in your respective city, Fly/Train-Me-To-You meetings are possible, within Canada only. I do not travel to the United States.

What kind of services do you offer?

I do not have a menu, so if you are looking for something specific, as always, please be open and specific, I will let you know if that is something I offer. Don't be afraid of judgement: I am a naturally empathetic and affectionate individual. I seek to connect with others on a deeply emotional level and form relationships founded on acceptance, compassion, and mutual respect.

What are your turn-ons and turn-offs? Do you have any restrictions?

My turn-ons include punctuality, courtesy, and mutual respect. My turn-offs are rudeness, vague communication, and when people do not respect my time. Outside of that, I truly believe that attraction works in diverse and individual ways. I'm sure once we meet and our personal chemistry is established, we'll have a great time. As for restrictions - please be open and upfront about what you are looking for and I'll be happy to tell you whether or not I'm comfortable with it.

Do you offer in-call/out-call meetings?

I am happy to receive you at my cute little apartment in the downtown area. I also offer outcall appointments to 4-5 star hotels in the downtown area. I do not offer out-calls while touring.

Do you offer duos?

I have many beautiful and interesting friends and am happy to recommend them on request. If you have someone in mind that I have not yet met, I’m also open to connecting with new friends! It is important that I have time to reach out to new friends ahead of the appointment to ensure we are a good fit. Please keep in mind that duos often require more advanced notice than solo appointments as there are more schedules to align.

Do you entertain couples?

I most certainly do! I love to meet with couples and because of this, my donation is all-inclusive.

Do you offer your services to people other than cis men?

Very much so! Ever the passionate pansexual, I am happy to meet with trans and non-binary folks as well as cis women.

Do you speak French?

My spoken French is still very limited (and I’m very shy about it), although I can read it with a little help from Google Translate. If you send me a message in French, I will likely be able to understand it but will only be able to reply back in English. My conversational French is very stilted and as the quality of our meeting will be determined by my comfort in communication, it is best we stick to English for now.

Are your fees negotiable?

No, they are not. Any haggling or attempts to negotiate will be taken as a sign of incredible disrespect and rudeness.

May I take photos or video during our meeting?

No, you may not. While I feel confident you will leave with lovely memories of our time together, that is all you will leave with.

What does 'Social Hour' mean?

A social hour involves a meeting in public. This can include a coffee date, going out to dinner, visiting a museum, or even a night at the opera. A minimum of two hours of social time is required if you would like to see if we have good chemistry before you commit to a more intimate rendevous. Any meetings that take place in private fall under my regular donation options.

May I use you as a reference?

Of course! I’m not jealous by nature and there are so many lovely companions in the world. If you have been respectful and courteous with me and I have met with you within the last six months, please don't hesitate to give my name to another companion. I only ask that you let me know when you are giving me as a reference so that I can keep an eye on my inbox. I will do my best to respond to reference requests in a timely fashion.